Dancing through Life.

I gave a lot of thought if I should bring this topic to the blog.

I do prefer to talk about positive situations, but every now and then something not that great also happens and there no point of pretending it didn't.

Sometimes I feel I attract problematic people, people full of bad energies who just throw their own resentments and frustrations on me. 

I believe most of the times I can deal with those people pretty well to the point I even stay close to them. 

I realise most of them are not conscious of their behaviour and apart from that I can consider them good people. Other times that doesn't happen like that and, sadly, I get very disappointed.

This time it happened at work. I have this colleague who I have considered a friend up until a few days ago.

It was so bad that at one moment I was apologizing for something I had nothing to do with and I was actually feeling bad and sorry for my colleague.

Only after giving a very deep thought on that I came to realise that it was not my fault that that person was not feeling confident about the work done or even that someone gave me as an example to help with that colleague's work.

I had noticed that my colleague was distant and barely talked to me but it could be something going on or that I said something without noticing I was saying the wrong thing.

But no. It all came to the conclusion that that person was feeling with low self-confidence and somehow the one to blame was me.

I feel sorry that people can be like that and damage good relationship, as the one I believed we had.

Everyone is human and can feel jealous of other people but I think that when it comes to a point that they blame someone else for their own failures or even wish negative things to others, then that people can not be good or good to be around.

I feel sad how this situation turned out but I started to put a lot more distance between us and decided to see that person as just a colleague who don't need to know anything about my personal life or even my achievements at work.

I started this post by saying that I feel I attract negative people because every now and then someone like this appears in my Life.

Anyway, time to move on and let this negative feeling behind.

Have a great week!